Whats up with this guys being players thing ... can't a person just stay damn committed ...
I recently made a disturbing discovery ... actually its something i always knew in the back of my mind somewhere but just never wanted to believe ...
anyway, i just got told straight out how i was 'played' ... god dammit, how can the fool actually just volunteer information like that making me realise, or blatantly telling me atleast that he played me ... I felt like such a fool!!
Anyway, the rules went something like this :
- A guy has absolutely no reason not to reply your messages or return your phone calls, and if he doesnt by the time morning turns into afternoon or afternoon into evening etc, then something is wrong ...
- If he creates small fights with you, its because he wants you to disappear for a while so he can spend some time with girl 2 ...
- If he is genuinely interested in you he will do every little thing you want him to do ...
Now i hate knowing these rules, cos it makes me doubt and over-analyse every little thing potential new hooked up guy does, even though its so possible these little things mean absolutely nothing ... and im thinking ex player guy told me these rules purposely to make me doubtfull ... wot an ass!! Why oh why do i stay friends with these fools ... Food for thought: When a relationship is over, it's over!!! no being friends and feeling sorry for the fools at all ... thats it, make a clean break and never look back!!!
So speaking of clean breaks, i think im gonna delete ex player guys numbers from my phone and my life ... Liberte!!
Ciao
n|a
Tuesday, May 29, 2007
Friday, May 11, 2007
Two lipsticks and a lover
One word describes this book: phenomenal ....
It starts off saying that all you need to be a french woman is two lipsticks and a lover ... after reading on I found you need much more than 2 lipsticks ... You need day creams, night creams, eye creams, body creams ... You need a cleanser to use when you have make-up on and a cleanser for when you dont have make-up on. And then you still need to tone and moisturise. If you go to bed wearing make-up, you could age six days in one night.... Now i'm a follower of the cleanse tone moisturise rule but no ways am i putting so many different creams on, its insane.
Apart from the above, i learnt some great stuff ...
1. French women dont like to exercise. They prefer using over the counter methods ... like cellulite creams etc. And shopping is their form of exercise ... Its true, if you shop a lot and try on lots of clothes, you get a full body workout ... I'm part french there already. Yay
2.French women love lingerie ... One lady in the book had 365 different pairs, for each day of the year ... insane if u ask me, but thats a french woman ... must go all out in every aspect of your life! The bra was invented by a french lady, Herminie Cadolle in 1889. Thank you Herminie for getting rid of the corset :)
3. Accessorising your outfit is very important ... You should always buy the most expensive bag and shoes and they will make up any outfit ... Ooh this is so nice for me, i'm a bag fanatic ... Infact a good bag is actually an investment ...Think i should invest in that Prada bag i always wanted ... *sigh* the prada bag of my dreams
4.In france, family mealtimes are sacred. "Eating together as a family is an essential part of growing up for children. How will they ever learn how to eat properly if we dont eat with them? And, what will it do for our relationship with them if we exclude them from our meals?"
5. French women dont know the rule about staying away from your best friends man ... In fact, in France it is taken for granted that your best friend WILL cheat with your husband ...So all women keep their friend and family lives seperate ... This is a scary thought ... A survey done on french women asking about having an affair on holiday produced a result of 2% against it ... 98 out of every 100 french women would have affairs ... Keep your partners away from France girls!!
6. For a french woman, its not enough to just be chic and beautiful ... one must be intelligent too ... Infact, the top 5 role models for a french woman are all elegant, beautiful women who made names for themselves more for their intelligence and contributions to literature and politics than their beauty and intrigue ...
All in all, i think a french woman epitomises everything all women should strive for (except the smoking 60 cigs a day and stealing your best friends husband) ... but the way they look after their bodies, and their minds ...
Pour la femme française en tout de nous
Au revoir
n|a
It starts off saying that all you need to be a french woman is two lipsticks and a lover ... after reading on I found you need much more than 2 lipsticks ... You need day creams, night creams, eye creams, body creams ... You need a cleanser to use when you have make-up on and a cleanser for when you dont have make-up on. And then you still need to tone and moisturise. If you go to bed wearing make-up, you could age six days in one night.... Now i'm a follower of the cleanse tone moisturise rule but no ways am i putting so many different creams on, its insane.
Apart from the above, i learnt some great stuff ...
1. French women dont like to exercise. They prefer using over the counter methods ... like cellulite creams etc. And shopping is their form of exercise ... Its true, if you shop a lot and try on lots of clothes, you get a full body workout ... I'm part french there already. Yay
2.French women love lingerie ... One lady in the book had 365 different pairs, for each day of the year ... insane if u ask me, but thats a french woman ... must go all out in every aspect of your life! The bra was invented by a french lady, Herminie Cadolle in 1889. Thank you Herminie for getting rid of the corset :)
3. Accessorising your outfit is very important ... You should always buy the most expensive bag and shoes and they will make up any outfit ... Ooh this is so nice for me, i'm a bag fanatic ... Infact a good bag is actually an investment ...Think i should invest in that Prada bag i always wanted ... *sigh* the prada bag of my dreams
4.In france, family mealtimes are sacred. "Eating together as a family is an essential part of growing up for children. How will they ever learn how to eat properly if we dont eat with them? And, what will it do for our relationship with them if we exclude them from our meals?"
5. French women dont know the rule about staying away from your best friends man ... In fact, in France it is taken for granted that your best friend WILL cheat with your husband ...So all women keep their friend and family lives seperate ... This is a scary thought ... A survey done on french women asking about having an affair on holiday produced a result of 2% against it ... 98 out of every 100 french women would have affairs ... Keep your partners away from France girls!!
6. For a french woman, its not enough to just be chic and beautiful ... one must be intelligent too ... Infact, the top 5 role models for a french woman are all elegant, beautiful women who made names for themselves more for their intelligence and contributions to literature and politics than their beauty and intrigue ...
All in all, i think a french woman epitomises everything all women should strive for (except the smoking 60 cigs a day and stealing your best friends husband) ... but the way they look after their bodies, and their minds ...
Pour la femme française en tout de nous
Au revoir
n|a
Wednesday, May 2, 2007
The Hook-up
I have a new word for people that try to hook you up with their nephews, sons, etc ... Gonna call em 'hookers' ... Ok, i didn't come up with that one, actually my dad did ... lol!
So, anyway, my aunt has been organising this hook up for me with one of her friends sons for the past couple of months ... now she finally managed to get us both in the same place at the same time so she could let him see me ... I wasn't told about this apparent 'viewing' ... how unfair is that! Why wasn't I allowed to see him? (Thank god for my clever sister-in-law ... she had a good luck!) So this guy checks me out, decides that yeah i look cool so he'll give it a shot ... Then she tells me she gave him my number ... So, we had about 3 phone and a couple of sms conversations over the past 3 weeks ... Is that ok?? how often are u supposed to speak to someone you trying to get to know?? And how much effort should you, as the female party, put in?
I have no idea how this hooking up thing works ... the last few relationships of mine were 'hooked up' by me and the other persons ... no other involved parties whatsoever... But then, those ended so maybe these 'arranged' relationships work better ... I'm slowly beginning to understand the concept behind arranged marriage ...
Maybe taking things slowly is better than flying into a whirlwind romance where the couple is madly in love with each other after a week cos those end just as quickly ... But how slow can you take things, especially when 'the hooker' keeps calling to find out how things are going ... what must i even say cos i really dont know ... This pressure is too much for me to handle ...
Ciao
n|a
So, anyway, my aunt has been organising this hook up for me with one of her friends sons for the past couple of months ... now she finally managed to get us both in the same place at the same time so she could let him see me ... I wasn't told about this apparent 'viewing' ... how unfair is that! Why wasn't I allowed to see him? (Thank god for my clever sister-in-law ... she had a good luck!) So this guy checks me out, decides that yeah i look cool so he'll give it a shot ... Then she tells me she gave him my number ... So, we had about 3 phone and a couple of sms conversations over the past 3 weeks ... Is that ok?? how often are u supposed to speak to someone you trying to get to know?? And how much effort should you, as the female party, put in?
I have no idea how this hooking up thing works ... the last few relationships of mine were 'hooked up' by me and the other persons ... no other involved parties whatsoever... But then, those ended so maybe these 'arranged' relationships work better ... I'm slowly beginning to understand the concept behind arranged marriage ...
Maybe taking things slowly is better than flying into a whirlwind romance where the couple is madly in love with each other after a week cos those end just as quickly ... But how slow can you take things, especially when 'the hooker' keeps calling to find out how things are going ... what must i even say cos i really dont know ... This pressure is too much for me to handle ...
Ciao
n|a
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